Sunday, March 10, 2013

Nora's Final Meeting with Torvald: The Doll's Defiance



Nora Helmer, wife of Torvald Helmer is the protagonist of the celebrated realistic play 'A Doll House' (1879) by Henrik Ibsen (1828-1906). The change in her personality from a submissive wife to an assertive woman is taken as the most important move of the plot in this play. In this development, Nora's final meeting with her husband Helmer (whom she is going to leave) is the climax. Understanding this very episode provides the audience with the central controversy associated with Nora's role: is she right in leaving home. In deed, the scene of her meeting with Helmer is essentially crux of the play as it includes the landmark move in the plot, that is Nora's daring defiance against her doll position.
In this meeting, Nora begins to claim her value of self along with independence and dignity. She eloquently expresses how important it is to live as a self, rather than wife or a mother of someone. Thus the meeting marks Nora's journey from innocence to knowledge of her position in Helmer family in particular, and position of women in then patriarchal society in general.
As soon as Kristine suggests Nora that it is better to tell Helmer everything regarding forgery, Nora begins to realize her position in the family. Earlier, she had expected Kristine to help negotiate with Krogstad to withdraw the letter that he has put in Helmer's mailbox. But though Kristine comes back with the green signal that he will withdraw the letter, Nora can not be happy. She has now realized that so far she has been just a doll wife for Helmer, and thus is determined not to continue the position. So, she tells Kristine, "I know now what's to be done".
Before he opens the mailbox and finds the letter from Krogstad, Helmer is completely unaware of the change that Nora is undergoing that night. Thus, he addresses Nora as in the dominating way as he does normally, "Oh, you bewitchingly lovely young woman" . But, Nora begins to show her knowledge of self position here, "Torvald, don't look at me like that!...You mustn't talk to me that way tonight" . Torvald doesn't understand all these at this moment so continues to lower her position in the form of "love". But as he reads the letter from Krogstad later, he hurls his masculine rage over Nora quite explicitly.
It is Nora who asks Helmer to open the mailbox and lets him know the truth. She had a great fear of this exposition earlier, but now she herself is motivating him to read the letter. This event can also represent change in her perception of self that she now thinks she can hide any truth no more. In other words, she has begun preparing herself confident and brave to face any truth.  Thus, before Helmer calls her, she prepares herself to face the situation and starts for the hall and then open door toward Helmer's study room.
"I'm beginning to understand everything now" is one of the important first sentences that Nora speaks with Helmer that night. After that, she goes on proving how she is beginning to understand everything. She, for the first time in eight year long marriage life, requests her husband to sit and talk seriously together, "Tonight I'm not sleeping… Sit down, Torvald; we have a lot to talk over". When Torvald answers that he doesn't understand what she is doing, Nora again assertively claims that it is not only today that he fails to understand her, but it always has been so between them, "…that's exactly it. You don't understand me. And I've never understood you either - until tonight" .  Later, she perceives this understanding as the greatest knowledge that she got throughout her life. When Torvald accuses her that she is senseless - "out of your head" - she claims, "I've never felt more clearheaded and sure in my life" (than this night). In deed, recognition of self is the most important knowledge in one's life; thus Nora has proper rights to claim that.
In this very conversation, Nora speaks of how she has been a doll and the house has been a doll house (and this revelation gives the title for the play). She explicitly expresses that she is never loved in this house, but Torvald only "thought it fun to be in love with" her.  As a submissive wife, she has been suppressing her wills and emotions but confirming her husband's feelings and desires as her own. In other words, she couldn't live the life on her own from the very beginning; but it took her so long time up to this point to understand it so that she is now able to defy. Before marriage, she has been a doll child for her father and after marriage a doll wife for the husband. She is treated as inanimate doll, who doesn't have own feelings, emotions, desires, wishes, values, opinions; but only can support those of her "masters" (the father and the husband).  She tells Torvald, "You arranged everything to your own taste, and so I got the same taste as you - or I pretended to… it seems as if I'd lived here like a beggar - just from hand to mouth". She also reveals that she is never happy in this place and never felt that she has been loved, but "only lighthearted."
Torvald tries to stop her defiance with the means of morality and religion. But, Nora here questions values of both morality and religion. "…You are not the man to teach me to be a good wife to you", says Nora as the daring step to detach herself from bond with Helmer (and by extension with children). Torvald in response persuades her that she has duties toward her husband and children, as assigned by the "most sacred vows" of religion and culture. But Nora answers, "I believe that before all else, I'm a human being, no less than you - or anyway, I ought to try to become one". She has already told him that duties to self are equally (or even more) important than duties to family; and she also has to educate herself. Thus her leaving home has been justified as an initiative to "discover herself and the world out there." Critic Muriel C Bradbrook in her review 'A Doll's House: Ibsen the Moralist' (1948) analyses it: "In leaving her husband Nora is seeking a fuller life as a human being. She is emancipating herself". 
Nora questions lack of mutuality in their marital relationship and states it as a reason why Torvald is denied of her love. Nora explains that she has sacrificed her whole "self" for Torvald and the family for eight years. But, she is not happy now that Torvald didn't help her in the point of crisis; he didn't return her the sacrifice that she had offered and had expected the same from him. She uses the metaphor of "miracle" here. The word "miracle" in a sense seems satiric, as it happens only in imagination, but not in real life. With this, Nora tries to assert her voice that in her traditional family life, husband's support to wife as equal as she supports him is really impossible; it is only "miracle" and she herself was wrong in expecting it.
Torvald has already become helpless and tries to defend him with arguments. He explains that he too has been working for the wife and the family "day and night". But, he must not have expected such answer from Nora that "millions of women have done just that".
As the final step of defiance of her doll position and detachment from him and the family, she calls him "a stranger." After she explains her position that Helmer takes so far - "I was exactly the same, your little lark, your doll, that you'd have to handle with double care" - she "gets up" to defy that position and claims, "…for eight years I've been living here with a stranger". Though they have been living together, Nora's independent identity has never been recognized by Torvald, she has just been taken as an entertainer, a "doll" for him. Perhaps, this is why the critic Muriel C Bradbrook writes, "Nora's marriage becomes eight years' prostitution, as she gradually learns the true nature of her relations with Torvald and the true nature of Torvald's feelings for her". Thus, she instantly goes on to leave the home, despite it is night time; because she "can't spend a night in strange man's room". She tells him that it takes "the greatest miracle of all" for Helmer to become more than a stranger. But, she adds, "I have stopped believing in miracles", suggesting that she will not return to her submissive position once she bravely defies it.
Finally, Torvald seems to realize his past mistakes; and is very unhappy that Nora is leaving him. He wants to be in contact. But Nora in this stage is so persistent on her own that she wants equal freedom for both of them from each other - "Don't feel yourself bound, anymore than I will. There has to be absolute freedom for us both". She returns him the marriage ring so as to culturally end their eight-year long marriage. Finally she goes down the hall and slams the door leaving Torvald alone in emptiness - "Empty. She's gone" - and confusion - "The greatest miracle - ?" 
The meeting of that night happens to be the first and last true, serious communication between Nora and Helmer. Though this is the final scene, it exposes a lot of their past life and stands as a point of climax of the plot. The meeting has received and has to receive the greatest attention from its audience among the entire events in the plot movement because Nora's position and opinions in this scene are what the play intends to communicate the audience with.


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